A cat was a living being, and it also *matters* whether it will get cared for – so that you mention you to. Exactly as your talk about mutual posessions, expenses, or any other responsibilities. (Whenever leaking out an enthusiastic abusive relationships, you might not have the opportunity. Right here, you to definitely excuse doesn’t amount.) If for example the LW moved in the place of talking so it more than, it fell golf ball into the a task, and you may T met with the straight to find anyone else (however, unless of course he managed to get clear earlier which he had no interest in the brand new pet, I would personally however worry if someone else went of ‘that is our very own cat’ so you can ‘I don’t require their pet in my own house’. Pretending in order to including things (or individuals) after you do not are unethical; and you can I would personally be a lot happier from the ‘I really don’t worry about pets, however, I am able to care for they if you’d like want’ than throughout the ‘yes, why don’t we possess a pet together’ morphing towards the ‘We never need a cat’ in the event that matchmaking happens bitter. (Ok, nonetheless feeling bad on my poisonous ex lover acting to like my personal dogs so long as they eliminate them.)
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